A major advantage of age is learning to accept people without passing judgment.People are difficult.
Sometimes I envy guys because they make it look so easy. Guys seem to always get along and have something to discuss with each other. They don't (usually) have any bad feelings towards each other.
Girls are totally different. Girls world is not as simple and straight forward. You don't just start talking with random people and even if you do, you are analyzing and most probably criticizing every inch of the conversation partner. This sounds totally ridiculous, but it's true.
I hate this phenomenon. I hate it even if I would be the one having bad feelings about the other person. I don't understand why you have to pay attention to every small detail and if some of those details are not suiting to your world you have to get annoyed with that. And to make matters worse girls seem to always have a fight from the guys around them. Even if they would know that the opponent is not single and has no intention of "stealing" the guys from you. Seriously people, come on.
And in the world of girls, there is a thing called grouping. In this certain type of people go together and form a group. And of course if you are not seen to be one those stereotypical characters forming a group you will be left out. Surely there are people who are able to mingle from group to group temporarily and get along with all of these different kinds of people. But they are rare. Usually people in a group don't invite people from other groups and especially "outsiders" to join them. And if you try to get in and communicate with these people, you will feel uncomfortable and left out..
Why can't people just accept each other the way they are? Why do you have to get annoyed about superficial things? Are we just constructed this way or does it come from the culture we are living in? And could someone please explain me why girls can't be friends, but have to hate each other?